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As February 14 approaches, the excitement surrounding Valentine’s Day is in full swing. The week leading up to the big day, known as Valentine Week, is marked by special celebrations like Rose Day (February 7), Propose Day, and Kiss Day. But in the digital age, where online connections dominate, are dating apps the best place to find love during this romantic season?
NewsX spoke to women who use dating apps to understand their experiences and perspectives. Many expressed skepticism about finding true love on these platforms. Sraddha (name changed) shared her disappointment, saying, “No. Dating apps are not the best place. All are creepy. I use this app for good friends, but most men here are only looking for physical relationships. Real love is dead in dating apps. I personally went on a date with a boy from Delhi, and when I refused to kiss him, he questioned why I was even on Tinder.” Her experience highlights the perception that many people on dating apps are not looking for serious relationships.
Disappointment And Concerns
Similarly, Alice (name changed) voiced strong criticism against dating apps, calling them “the worst place to find love.” She revealed that her friend who once used a dating app has now switched to a matrimonial site, feeling that dating apps are a waste of time. “Most boys there are too flirty and only interested in one-night stands. The concept of love is dying,” she said.
However, not everyone agrees. Vaishnavi, another dating app user, believes that while these platforms are not the best place for love, they can still be useful. “I don’t think dating apps are the best place, but sometimes they help in finding love. I have had creepy experiences, even met an abusive person, but that doesn’t mean all men on these platforms are bad. It’s a good place to make cool friendships,” she added.
Jeevika (name changed) holds a mixed opinion, stating, “Valentine’s Day is for true lovers. While dating apps may work for casual hookups, it ultimately depends on the person. I wouldn’t rely on them to find love.”
A Space For Friendships, Not Just Romance
The debate isn’t limited to women. Men, too, shared their thoughts. Ayan, a dating app user, bluntly said, “Dating apps are the worst place to find love. They are only for hookups, timepass, and fun. I don’t believe in Valentine’s Day or love.” Amal, on the other hand, believes dating apps could improve with better features. “Girls initiate conversations, and communication is key. I prefer to spend Valentine’s Week with my friends rather than on dating apps. These platforms need advanced options to foster real connections,” he suggested.
Meanwhile, a recent study reveals that dating apps are contributing to negative impacts on body image and mental health, raising concerns about their psychological effects on users.
As Valentine’s Week 2025 unfolds, the debate over whether dating apps are the ideal place to find love continues. While some find them a space for casual fun, others seek deeper connections, and a few dismiss them altogether. Whether online or offline, the search for love remains personal, with each individual choosing their path to romance.
